Thanks.well,after i started this thread i hav since embarked
myself on a "say no" campaign.no to less than reasonable demands.no
to emotional blackmails.no to tyrants.
i've done several actions:
1)Steer away from the type 3 guy
2)Avoid that touchy type 2 guy
3)Be less responsive to the needs of the other type 2 guys.i m
their buddy yes but not their nanny or 24/7 convenience store or
quick pullover before they seek audiences with their princesses in
the palace.just need them to get that point.
4)Not initiate contact with type 1 guy and just continue to
observe.
Hope that's at least a good start.
Well,i m not sure if the prob is the frdships hav moved too fast
for my liking.lets look at the different situations:
the type 3 guy-can it b frdship moving too fast?i mean did he like
me?is there frdship at all?or is he just out for sexual exploits?i
dont know.
i know wat i'm going to say now gona make me sound like a wimp but
though i hav steered clear of him,he still lingers in my head
sometimes.it must b crazy to still think abt a pervert but it's so
hard to erase him just like that.nobody has ever been so
nice,attentive to and appreciative of me before.if not for his
recent 180 attitude change,i might hav fell for him.i was so
tempted to.it was close.i met him at the time when i was feeling
miserable.n there he was offering wat i could not hav yearned for
more,a warm shelter i could always turn to.he made my days bearable
n put smiles on my face for that one month or two.i felt so lost
when i realised he's...ya.all the promises turned empty n my dream
turned into a nightmare. he ended up making me more bitter than
before.
i want to find out why did his attitude change.could it be:
a)he got impatient and revealed his true motives
b)he realised i m not serious gf material but sex exploit
material
c)even if he'd like me at first he got sick of waiting n decided he
need to get smt get of it
d)i induced him to switch on his pervert mode.though i doubt i hav
such "capabilities" but he obviously isnt like that to everyone or
the ppl around him would ostracise him alr.
which option do u think is a more plausible explanation?
sry i might hav strayed from the supposed issue.but this is
bothering me now n just want to get it out.think i better stop at
here for now cos i m getting too lor sor alr.grumbling like an old
woman.shouldnt rattle on abt the rest.
anyway,thanks mates.
